Jul 31, 2026
For years, I asked my wife to initiate sex more often because I wanted to feel chosen and desired. Instead, my requests created pressure, scorekeeping, and a cycle that made genuine desire even harder.
In this episode, I explain why I stopped asking, what I misunderstood about responsive desire, and how shifting...
Jul 24, 2026
When work, kids, meals, schedules, and the never-ending mental checklist take everything you have, intimacy can start to feel like one more task. Amy Nesbit knows that tension firsthand.
After nearly 20 years as a working professional—including time at Apple—she has learned how making the invisible load...
Jul 17, 2026
Most couples think they know what's hurting their marriage.
Poor communication. Different sex drives. Parenting disagreements. Financial stress. Growing apart.
That's exactly what one couple thought, too.
After 18 years of marriage, they came to Dan convinced they knew what needed fixing. But as they peeled back the...
Jul 10, 2026
Shame thrives in secrecy—but healing doesn't.
In this deeply honest conversation, Dan sits down with Craig Perra, a former attorney whose secret life of pornography, strip clubs, prostitution, and compulsive sexual behavior nearly destroyed everything he cared about.
After years of trying therapy, recovery groups, and...
Jul 3, 2026
What does the Constitutional Convention have to do with your marriage?
More than you might think.
As we celebrate Independence Day, Dan explores one of the greatest acts of collaboration in history—the creation of the U.S. Constitution—and uncovers surprising lessons for couples navigating differences in...