Apr 29, 2022
It’s normal to seek validation from our spouse in marriage. By validation I mean to get a sense of our legitimacy as a person and a spouse, such as being told we’re sexy enough, pretty enough, and desirable. And it’s normal to seek that validation.
But what do you do when you don’t feel it? What do you do when...
Apr 22, 2022
Like most kids, I loved taking on new roles when I’d play with my friends and siblings… whether it was cops and robbers, or ninjas, or race car drivers, there’s a creative & playful element to trying on new roles and identities.
As an adult in a romantic and committed relationship, you can bring that same...
Apr 15, 2022
Apr 8, 2022
Some couples really struggle with intimacy. And I’m not referring to “intimacy” as a euphemism for sex. I mean their relationship feels superficial and they’ve run out of “safe” topics they can discuss because all the harder topics make one or both of them anxious and uncomfortable. As a result, the marriage...
Apr 1, 2022
I had the privilege of being a guest on Manda Carpentner’s podcast called A Longer Table, and wanted to share that interview here because I think the things we discussed are super valuable for you to hear.
In this interview, we talk about a number of topics such as: